Cup full of 'Humour'
Posted on Wednesday, 28 November 2012
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A legend truly said that “a pinch of humor in you can boost up your life”. Now you wonder who the legend said this come on dude it’s of course me,ok jokes apart but it’s really true that apart from today’s stressful life we defiantly need some sense of humor in us.
In my opinion the most important characteristic that a
person should have to be successful in life is a good sense of humor. One might
be intelligent, honest and kind but when all goes wrong the best way to tackle
with difficulties is approaching to them optimistically. Humor is the spark
that lights our eyes as well as the cause of tears that never grows old, it is defiantly
a catalyst to smile
Today life
is full of problems, stress, life brings challenges at every point that can either
get the best of you or become playthings for your imagination. When you “become
the problem” and take yourself too seriously, it can be hard to think outside
the box and find new solutions, even it make you difficult to live. But my
friend when you play with the problem, you can often transform it into an
opportunity. When everything seems to be collapsing near you see the funny side.
May be it will not help you to find the solution of your problem but it will surly
make you some how feel relaxed.
Friend humor is not just laughing on jokes or on other its sometime also laughing at yourself. I am comfortable making jokes about myself and, if other people laugh at me,I don’t feel threatened. Laughing at yourself might seem to indicate low self-esteem, but it’s a mark of being well adjusted. ‘People who take themselves too seriously tend to be introspective, and more prone to stress and depression, An ability to laugh at yourself is a definite advantage, and indicates solid self-esteem.
To begin with, the whole existing in the world is a rivalry
where really often you are on the weaker side. You can lose your job after
years of trying to achieve professional acknowledgement, or you can look as a
straggler after failing at an exam. The important thing is never to give up and
not to take everything personal. People who manage to overcome the "being
down in the dumps" feeling are the ones who succeed.
Every situation defiantly comes up with an humor in it. Remember your past there might be some situation that forced you to cry at that time but today you will surly laugh on yourself remembering that thing “how stupid of me "I cried for it”.Get some time and remember those things got it or not. So my friend if today that stressful moment of your life make you smile today, then why to cry for today’s problem when you know that it will make you smile someday.
Every situation defiantly comes up with an humor in it. Remember your past there might be some situation that forced you to cry at that time but today you will surly laugh on yourself remembering that thing “how stupid of me "I cried for it”.Get some time and remember those things got it or not. So my friend if today that stressful moment of your life make you smile today, then why to cry for today’s problem when you know that it will make you smile someday.
Life is neither good
nor bad. It is what you make of it. If one has developed an attitude of always
looking at the dark-side of life, he will always manage to find some drawback
and shortcoming even in a happy situation. On the other hand, people with an
even temperament and equipped with a sense of humor always find something
consoling or even amusing in many not so happy situations.
To sum up, I strongly believe that the sense of humor is the
most important characteristic one should have in order to be successful. In
other words,
"When life
gives you lemons, twist some and make Lemonade"