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Beee Positive

Wednesday, 28 November 2012 0


We all are familiar with the law of nature that electrons are repelled by the negative and attracted towards the positive OK this is about science now come to our daily life same law also apply in our life as if positivity resembles in us then surly our problems repelled from us.
                             Let me allow asking something very weird right now.Sit in peace give you some time and  listen to your thoughts. Now tell me, what thoughts right now filling your head? Would you label them as positive, or negative? The answer to it is up to you. But don tell a lie to yourself if every thought in u is positive according to you then it’s good but if in any case your thoughts are against your will or giving you a negative impression then answer me one thing why ? loading your mind with such an thoughts,flush it from your mind yes you have to,because all this thoughts are like garbage they just create disturbance in your mind set.
                            Thoughts are very powerful. Sometime it make it happen what you think.They also affect your general attitude. The attitude you carry reflects on your appearance, too unless, of course, you are a great actor.And it doesn't end there.Your attitude can also affect people around you.Positive thoughts have a filling effect
                         Negative thoughts have a sapping effect on other people. Aside from making you look gloomy and sad, negative thoughts can turn a festive gathering into a funeral wake.A positive attitude attracts people, while a negative attitude repels them. People tend to shy away from those who carry a negative attitude.
                 A positive attitude begins with a healthy self-image. If you will love the way you are and are satisfied, confident, and self-assured, you also make others are around feel the same way.A negative attitude, on the other hand, has, of course, an opposite effect. So, carrying a negative attitude has a twofold drawback. You feel bad about yourself, and you make others feel the same way.just remember if you want other to love you first start loving yourself.
                    Although it is impossible to keep ourselves from the negative things around us, you can still carry a positive attitude by focusing on the good things, the positive things in life.
                                                     Positive attitude you now carry can be of benefit to other people. Sometimes when other people near you feel down, the thing people mostly do is try to give them advice. But sometimes, all they need is somebody to sit by them, and listen to them. If you have a positive attitude you may be able to cheer them up without even having to say anything.
                               If positive attitude is really great, why do people choose to adopt a negative attitude instead? One who carries a negative attitude may be actually sending a signal for attention. Before you get me wrong, feeling sad, angry, or gloomy is not wrong itself. But dwelling on these thoughts for far too long is not healthy either. 
                              As always, if you are beset by troubles, even in your darkest hour, focus on the good things in life, you will always have hope. Problems become something you can overcome.You do not have much to lose by adopting a healthy, positive attitude. you healthier, helps you develop a better stress coping
Positive people are able to maintain a broader perspective and see the big picture which helps them identify solutions, whereas negative people maintain a narrower perspective and tend to focus on problems.


                 “If you don’t like something; change it, if you cannot change it, change the way you think about it”.

Cup full of 'Humour'

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 A legend truly said that “a pinch of humor in you can boost up your life”. Now you wonder who the legend said this come on dude it’s of course me,ok jokes apart but it’s really true that apart from today’s stressful life we defiantly need some sense of humor in us.
In my opinion the most important characteristic that a person should have to be successful in life is a good sense of humor. One might be intelligent, honest and kind but when all goes wrong the best way to tackle with difficulties is approaching to them optimistically. Humor is the spark that lights our eyes as well as the cause of tears that never grows old, it is defiantly a catalyst to smile
           Today life is full of problems, stress, life brings challenges at every point that can either get the best of you or become playthings for your imagination. When you “become the problem” and take yourself too seriously, it can be hard to think outside the box and find new solutions, even it make you difficult to live. But my friend when you play with the problem, you can often transform it into an opportunity. When everything seems to be collapsing near you see the funny side. May be it will not help you to find the solution of your problem but it will surly make you some how feel relaxed.

                Friend humor is not just laughing on jokes or on other its sometime also laughing at yourself. I am comfortable making jokes about myself and, if other people laugh at me,I don’t feel threatened. Laughing at yourself  might seem to indicate low self-esteem, but it’s a mark of being well adjusted. ‘People who take themselves too seriously tend to be introspective, and more prone to stress and depression, An  ability to laugh at yourself is a definite advantage, and indicates solid self-esteem.
       To begin with, the whole existing in the world is a rivalry where really often you are on the weaker side. You can lose your job after years of trying to achieve professional acknowledgement, or you can look as a straggler after failing at an exam. The important thing is never to give up and not to take everything personal. People who manage to overcome the "being down in the dumps" feeling are the ones who succeed.

                           Every situation defiantly comes up with an humor in it. Remember your past there might be some situation that forced you  to cry at that time but today you will surly laugh on yourself remembering that thing “how stupid of me "I cried for it”.Get some time and remember those things got it or not. So my friend if today that stressful moment of your life make you smile today, then why to cry for  today’s problem  when you  know that it will make you smile someday.
 Life is neither good nor bad. It is what you make of it. If one has developed an attitude of always looking at the dark-side of life, he will always manage to find some drawback and shortcoming even in a happy situation. On the other hand, people with an even temperament and equipped with a sense of humor always find something consoling or even amusing in many not so happy situations.
To sum up, I strongly believe that the sense of humor is the most important characteristic one should have in order to be successful. In other words,
                            "When life gives you lemons, twist some and make Lemonade"

Smile-"Never let it go"

Tuesday, 27 November 2012 0



The only thing that cost you nothing but gives you gives u much, makes  you more richer if you give it to someone, sometimes  memory of its last forever, the only thing that give you a lot and takes nothing from you is your precise smile on your face. A smile creates a wonderful atmosphere.
           

 Yet this is the only thing which cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen, for it is something that is of no value to anyone until it is given away. Although we did not need any reason  to smile but still if you are fed up from everything  and you don’t find any reason  to put the glitters of smile on your face then I’ll tell you some reason that may be make you to smile.
Smiling makes us more attractive Dude if you are worry about your looks going on for some auction and do not able to decide what to wear and what not then let me give you one tip wear a sweet smile on your face you look more attractive. A smile really helps bring others close to you.
2. Smiling exudes positivity – When you are really unhappy and depressed, everything around you seems you to be negative. Have   A smile I bet you for this everything negativity start turning into positivity
4. Smiling reduces stress – Smiling really helps uplift our spirits and allows us to look at the world in a positive way.
5. A smile can brighten another person’s day –we often meet someone who is really depressed or upset sometimes words are not enough to soothe them. Remember a smile is a silent gesture that shows another person that we care.
8.  Smiling denotes forgiveness and openness to forgive – When we have a spat with someone, or when we are not on good terms with someone, and when we have no words left with them. A smile is gesture that signals to others that we are open to forgive and/or ask for forgiveness.
9.  Smiling allows us to appear self-confident – People who smile usually have good reasons for doing so.
10. Smiling brings us closer to our friends and family – Who wants to be with people who are always unhappy? No one. It is okay to be unhappy sometimes since it is normal when we are in situations that we cannot help but be unhappy. However, people often are drawn to those who have a good outlook on life. They know that even if life is not perfect, smiling somehow sends the message that life is good!
may be anyone give 1 hundred or 1 thousand reason to smile but remember one thing dude smile because you are blessed with such a wonderful life, smile because may be someone, is waiting to smile after seeing yours, smile because come on dude I had already given you plenty of reason now just raise your face and smile
                       "When life gives you 100 reasons to cry, Show life 1000 reasons to smile"

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